heart broken

[Gimpy]

has anyone here ever been heart broken... mines ended about a week ago and it's been hard to get over it..

it was an online relationship.. we were to meet VERY soon.. and wham she says she found someone. She's 18 and knows the guy for 4-5 months and wants to marry the guy already... I really feel like I lost out...

i feel horrible.. and in some ways.. I hate to say it, but I really hope they break up.. I hope they don't get married... I still want my chance to meet her...

 

[GrayFox]

Yeah, I kinda know how you feel. I don't have good luck with relationships and I've only been in a few. I'm only friends with one ex-girlfriend... lost contact with the other two. 

Sometimes, when I see a couple, I get jealous. I sometimes wish they'd break up and feel lonely like me, but I don't really want that. I want people to be happy. I just want to not be lonely too.

 

[Gimpy]

Well it's the worst when a girl leaves you for ANOTHER guy... I mean she knows me for almost 3 yrs... and yet she knows this new dude for like what 5 months or less.. and tells me she "loves him more" and wants to marry him. She JUST turned 18 in November.. and I'm thinking wth... you wanna marry this dude you barley know all because you "think" you "feel" something called "love"? it's like she feels something different and in the end it's really because he can be around her.. since she HATES to be lonely or alone...

I've moved on now.. I don't care, but I hope Karma hits her back hard and total breaks her heart, so she can feel what I've been feeling for the last 2-3 weeks. All I know is, if you have to HURT someone else, for your OWN HAPPYNESS then you can NEVER be happy... because life will balance it'self out and get you back for what you did...

 

[GrayFox]

Yeah, that has to be tough. Hasn't quite happened to me like that. Good to hear that you moved on already because it's not your fault the relationship ended.

 

[Wondergirl]

I wonder statistically, how many online relations 'work out' out of 10.

 

[GrayFox]

If a relationship doesn't end with a breakup or divorce, then it ends with death.

Get it?

 

[Wondergirl]

Um, in what context are you pointing this out? I meant how many people actually meet and stay with eachother for awhile.

 

[GrayFox]

I guess you don't get it. I mean, you either stay with the person till one of you dies or you breakup at some point. It's just a joke I heard.

 

[Wondergirl]

I get it, I just thought you were being serious about something. I wouldn't say it's funny but everyone's got a different sense of humor.

 

[GrayFox]

Well, it wasn't  really supposed to be hilarious anyway. Just something kinda dumb but funny.