There are plenty of fish in the sea...
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Zayne.H
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Fox, I suggest what Poop and Infamous are telling you to, go out and find another girlfriend! If it takes time for you to find the perfect one well that is how it goes, but man just go out and find a new girlfriend.
"It" isn't something that I've done. "It" is the fact that Steph broke up with me after over 4 years of us telling each other that we'd stay together forever, no matter what. I was prepared to stick to that agreement, but I guess she wasn't. I'm glad to still be friends with her, but I still just can't believe she broke up with me. I mean, I know it happened, but it just doesn't make sense after so long... when I didn't even do anything wrong. And YES, I know she lives many miles away, but I thought it was worth it to wait until we could be together (meaning not miles away anymore) someday... though I guess she suddenly decided it wasn't worth the wait.
I know that... and I am trying... but it's just so hard after 4 years of thinking I'd never need to find someone new. It's like my dreams have been shattered... I wanted to stay with her forever. Now I have to try to find someone else & build new dreams... which won't be easy.
I'm sorry if you still don't understand the situation. I'm trying my best to explain.
I'm sorry if you still don't understand the situation. I'm trying my best to explain.
Fox, people's minds change. You're not the only one who has gone through this. And probably not the only one who can't get over it, but you need to move on. I'm sure it's difficult for you, and that you feel betrayed, but you can't hypnotize her to do what you want her to do.
Like I said, I AM TRYING to move on. It's just not easy.
And people's minds might change, but that doesn't justify shit at all. A promise is a promise... especially about something like this. We promised we wouldn't change our minds. I actually had one or two chances with other people, but I stayed with her. And as I said, I didn't even do anything wrong to change her mind about me. This breakup shouldn't have happened. It didn't have to happen. She let it happen.
And I have to say that the only way I can truly move on is if she gives me another chance or I find someone else. I guess either one of those would be a miracle.
And people's minds might change, but that doesn't justify shit at all. A promise is a promise... especially about something like this. We promised we wouldn't change our minds. I actually had one or two chances with other people, but I stayed with her. And as I said, I didn't even do anything wrong to change her mind about me. This breakup shouldn't have happened. It didn't have to happen. She let it happen.
And I have to say that the only way I can truly move on is if she gives me another chance or I find someone else. I guess either one of those would be a miracle.