Sex Before Marriage?

[Rock Lee]

Well no one can really say your really against it unless you didnt have sex yet and dont plan on it before marriage or well until you get married and for some of you that are like 15 that wont be for a while so think about do you really want to go probably 10 years without experiencing sex and then when you actually do it youll be in pain and for guys thinking about that im sorry our hormones are different we are more horny then girls most of them time and sex is usually the best cure for it sure you can do other stuff but it always doesnt satisfy your needs.

 

[Daesy]

I do consider myself christian. I wish i had waited. I think that it is wrong to have sex before marrage but.....**** HAPPENS. Nuff said really. I could have waited and wish i did. We have to remember that ppl will make there own decsions. So do i think sex before marriage is bad? Its not good. Do i force my opinions on other? No.

 

[Kadaj]

Yes sex is good, but yeah if you wait you'll only be having sex with that one person which kinda sucks, but having sex before marriage has some probs to it, like getting aids so yeah waiting would be a good thing

 

[Nitz]

Well the most stressfull part would be if you had a kid before marriage.... that's why it;s better to wait. I mean if your married and you have a kid... everyone finds that normal... but if your like 2 people who met last night and are going to have a kid..... all I can say is... . your gonna have a tough life now.... even with protected sex.... chances/risks are always there.....

 

[Cloud]

I was watching the news the other day and there as a lady who is 22 years old and currently has given birth to 5 children. Now that answers her question on this topic lol.

I do agree with Harry on this because having a child before any commitment is made is financially and emotionally deadly. I haven't got a problem with this topic in general but use some protection lol.

 

[QueenOfDeath]

To answer the original question, this is a problem for me, because I am Christian so for me sex before marriage is supposedly a no-no. But for me, there is absolutely no way I can not have sex before I've married. Firstly, I've done nearly everything but and sex is vital in a long lasting relationship. For example. you wouldn't want to marry and then find out that your partner was really bad in bed, in a way that didn't appeal to you at all. Sorry to be blunt, but it's true.

Overall, I think no sex before marriage is a totally unrealistic expectation that the Church seems to have, and I severely doubt whether many teenagers abide by this rule.

 

[Cloud]

I've always thought of that with Religion and this i'm glad you brought it up.

What would actualy happen in that situation? Because if your not allowed to have sex before marriage the style in both people would be pretty bad and like you said ultimately ending up in a bad relationship.

I would like to hear what you have to say about this a bit more because it would really suck if that were to happen.

 

[QueenOfDeath]

Personally, I would choose sex over adhering to the rules of my religion. Saying that makes me feel so bad, but it's true. I don't know what I'm going to tell my parents, not that I tell them intricate details concerning my love life but I can tell that they wouldn't expect me to go against Christianity.

Whilst in this aspect Christianity is bad, there are even less lenient religions such as Sikhism. For instance, there's if it's an arranged marriage, there's absolutely no way of having sex before marriage. If you are a Sikh, even things like kissing are strictly frowned upon, though it does depend on how strict the family is, and how devoutly religious they are.

 

[Cloud]

I can see this getting a little off topic on religion GAH so hard not to comment on it.

I don't really see why it is no sex before marriage....I mean it should be no children before marriage. Sex is such a human thing I guess. I don't see how a religion could opress it till only in marriage.

 

[QueenOfDeath]

I guess it's because sex before marriage means than there is a far greater chance of having many more sexual partners, I can see why people may want to only ever be with one person.

 

[Daemon Sadi]

The problem is that people want to think that you should love someone bgefore they **** them, but as animals, or animalistic nature is to ****, ****, ****; and **** some more.

 

[Crimson]

I don't agree with sex before marriage. Most likely because you could have sex with someone; have a child with them, and then not be faithful. The boy, or girl could leave the other one with the child, or they would get an abortion. Even safe sex shouldn't be okay to have before marriage. Also, no, I'm not Catholic. This is just what I believe in.

 

[Cruentus]

Well I wish a waited but I think waiting to have sex before marrage would've been good. I am regreting things. Maybe thats why it would be better for other people. Here coming from expirience.DON'T HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRAGE

 

[Nitz]

Well I wish a waited but I think sex before marrage would've been good. I am regreting things. Maybe thats why it would be better for other people. Here coming from expirience.DON'T HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRAGE

i think you wrote that wrong

"but I think sex before marrage would've been good"

but yet at the end you say...

"Here coming from expirience.DON'T HAVE SEX BEFORE MARRAGE"

so which is it then

 

[Serenity]

LOL! that really confused me too.. Which one did you mean to say? xD
About this topic...
I think its good to wait until marriage, because if you do have consequences then yeah, your screwed if your not married. Also it's sorta not right to your husband/wife if you've shared yourself with someone else already. Meaning you have already had sex before marriage. When you give yourself to someone for the first time, it makes the love in your marriage stronger, its like a bonding thing. So wouldn't you rather wait till marriage? To share your most intimate and deepest times with the person you love?
But i also think that if your engaged to a person sex is ok to.

Basically i dont believe sex is wrong, but you have to be willing to face anything that may happen. Be ready for it. I dont think you have to wait until marriage, but i think it is a very very very good idea to wait. If you love someone soo much to have sex with them then you will marry them. Otherwise if you dont really love them and just want sex...then its Lust not Love.

 

[Riddlin]

I think im going to wait....not sure why but its just for moral reasons

 

[Terra]

i agree completely with you

as for the rest of you, honestly, if you decide not to marry that person, can u rele deal with the fact that you had sex with them, and maybe made them/became pregnant if you didn''t use the proper equiment (condom etc)? and at the risk of AIDS will you rele have sex with people you don't know very well?

 

[Riddlin]

Well said, but everyone knows that the REAL reason people shouldnt have sex before marriage is because they'll go to hell, and the devil will cut their penis off/sew their vagina up. O.O thats whut my mom told me anyway.....lol

 

[Terra]

......that would hurt......and your mom's a perv but that was rele funny xDDDD

 

[Nitz]

Well said, but everyone knows that the REAL reason people shouldnt have sex before marriage is because they'll go to hell, and the devil will cut their penis off/sew their vagina up. O.O thats whut my mom told me anyway.....lol

LMAO!!! well who knows really... but yeah.. seems like many people these days can't control them selves. I'm reading a book for Eng class.. and this couple.. I swear, sleep around so much togethor.. pretty much everyday!!