well, some peopledo have that problem, in which they just cant stand not having sex one night, so they do it with many different people but once they get married, they cant get un-addicted to it.....its like smoking
Sex Before Marriage?
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Reiku Rinsagi
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um...no offense to your mom Riddlin, but that's complete bull**** >.>
You dun go to hell for sex before marriage -.- You dun even go there for sex. Marriage is just a recent act that was created in the past millennium or so. No one before the time of Jesus was cursed for having sex before marriage because it was only symbolic in the past. If anyone says that you'll go to hell just for losing it before you got a ring on your finger, then they're simply blindly following a religion that is only suppose to be a guide, not a controlling cult >_>
You dun go to hell for sex before marriage -.- You dun even go there for sex. Marriage is just a recent act that was created in the past millennium or so. No one before the time of Jesus was cursed for having sex before marriage because it was only symbolic in the past. If anyone says that you'll go to hell just for losing it before you got a ring on your finger, then they're simply blindly following a religion that is only suppose to be a guide, not a controlling cult >_>
as a man who has had sex before marrige, i find nothing wrong with it at all. I mean, if sex is such a bad thing, why can it be found on almost every televison station. Sex before marrige is a girls or guys choice, however, and if they dont feel like doing it before their married, then so be it.
Wow....way to take a joke.........
well i mean that was true way back when. catholic rules and what not. glad i left that. but i mean to belive that today, you must be a devout catholic, or just somone whos scared of having sex
WOW spell this with me J-O-K-E I never said it wasnt true I said it was a JOKE geez >.< no sense of humor
Well I know some cultures.. I think holland? or some european area.. when married, you don't even wear rings.. I remember my sub teacher.. said he was married and someone asked him why he had no ring.. and he said.. his culture or home area.. they don't wear rings.. or atleast not for marriages..
Kissui Tensai
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This thread makes me think of Mormon and how they take on like three wives which leads me in the direction of wild orgy XD.
Meh, this is something to think about actually, not so much the time in between because its a possibility to consider sex before marriage. It's not so much a problem, but the age range and the pattern of thinking about the area is whats seriously lacking. -_- thats like trying f*cking experiment when your too young to realize what your doing is retarded. . .
Meh, this is something to think about actually, not so much the time in between because its a possibility to consider sex before marriage. It's not so much a problem, but the age range and the pattern of thinking about the area is whats seriously lacking. -_- thats like trying f*cking experiment when your too young to realize what your doing is retarded. . .
i like where ur goin with that mormon stuff jk.
but you do have a point, theres alot of underage sex going around, but what do you consider underage? under 18?
jk. but you do have a point, theres alot of underage sex going around, but what do you consider underage? under 18?
honestly, i think anyone under the age of 21 is too young for sex.....and still, 21 and over shouldn't do it outside of marriage
Kissui Tensai
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i like where ur goin with that mormon stuff
but you do have a point, theres alot of underage sex going around, but what do you consider underage? under 18?
Under eighteen means your basically still a minor, what logical sense does it make...consent age is seventeen, but you must decide if your responsible enough to screw around with chances of having a child that you can't take care of and end up wrapping this around your mind in an outbreak of denial...now wouldn't that suck? Thats what I thought.
Case and Point.
Thats the main issue.. I know of tons of people who've screwed their lives up.. can you imagin.. getting out of high school. and you find out your g.f is having your kid... Your soo owned now.. since you have to go out.. find a job.. pay for a home.. unless your parents let your g.f stay over.. pay for diapers.. etc.. Your life is gone.. you can't even go to college now...
why? i mean i know there are other ways to show that you love somebody, but sex is the ultimate showing of love. There are those who exploit it, there are those who choose to keep it for the right moment. thats how alot of things are. but in current times (unless your of a very strict religious bias) having sex is just another part of a relationship. its a big step. whether your married or not.
i mean there are some instances that its not necessary to have sex. I've been dating one girl on and off for about 5 years, and we hvnt had sex. theres no reason. we can have legit, couple like convo's whenever.
eDiT: sry i posted at the same time.
what your saying is true, and its a risk people take. and its not like there's isnt plenty of different methods of birth controll. you need to make sure your ready for it metally as well as finacially if your going to take the risk to not use the birth control.
i mean there are some instances that its not necessary to have sex. I've been dating one girl on and off for about 5 years, and we hvnt had sex. theres no reason. we can have legit, couple like convo's whenever.
eDiT: sry i posted at the same time.
what your saying is true, and its a risk people take. and its not like there's isnt plenty of different methods of birth controll. you need to make sure your ready for it metally as well as finacially if your going to take the risk to not use the birth control.
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last year i had to take a class in my church for anyone 18 and younger about sex and sexual purity. The teacher told us that there were three reasons why people have sex:
1. A way to show affection for one another
2. To reproduce
3. Its fun
The last one had me going all " dude you're a perv....." but he had like no shame in it. I took out the notes we took on it and the reason we shouldn't have sex outside of marriage is because we are becoming one with someone who we aren't prepared to spend the rest of our lives with. Those aren't the exact notes but i'm too lazy to take them out and look at them
1. A way to show affection for one another
2. To reproduce
3. Its fun
The last one had me going all "
dude you're a perv....." but he had like no shame in it. I took out the notes we took on it and the reason we shouldn't have sex outside of marriage is because we are becoming one with someone who we aren't prepared to spend the rest of our lives with. Those aren't the exact notes but i'm too lazy to take them out and look at them
Kissui Tensai
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I go by what I was taught, my mother is 21 years older than I am, she's 19 years older than my oldest sister. When you've had to listen to the sh!t that happens because you went through the moments like this you'd understand. On top of not having a mother or father to help with this during the time of high school. Irrifutable as it may, you will not always be able to turn around the grim outcome such as in some cases Nitz explained.
all thats true, and Terra, thats just how you feel on the topic, im not trying to like, sway you in one way or the other. im just saying that, even though your teacher may have put it in a less romantic way (perhaps to derride?), sex is essential to a long lasting relationship, that may not lead to marrige.
and my parents are young too. my mom is 19 years older than i am. but it wasnt like they had to get married and keep the kid (me). thats just what they wanted. and yes, you do hear terrible stories of pre-marrital(sp?) sex mishaps gone awry, but there are many more cases that come out with both people not regreting it.
and my parents are young too. my mom is 19 years older than i am. but it wasnt like they had to get married and keep the kid (me). thats just what they wanted. and yes, you do hear terrible stories of pre-marrital(sp?) sex mishaps gone awry, but there are many more cases that come out with both people not regreting it.
i decided o take the notes out....here they are:
There were the actual verses in the bible where you can find these but i doubt anyone here will look them up, but i'll post them anyway in case someone wants to
Eph 5:25-33
1 Cor 7:4-5
1 Cor 6:15-20
Ex 22:16-17
Dt 22:28-29
Gen 34
2 Sam 13:1-22
1 Thess 4:2-8
Sex Class said:
There were the actual verses in the bible where you can find these but i doubt anyone here will look them up, but i'll post them anyway in case someone wants to
Eph 5:25-33
1 Cor 7:4-5
1 Cor 6:15-20
Ex 22:16-17
Dt 22:28-29
Gen 34
2 Sam 13:1-22
1 Thess 4:2-8
Kissui Tensai
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[Zidarri]This may sound like Zidarri, but in cases you need to reproduce to keep the existence of human beings on the planet, there doesn't necessarily need to be an instance of emotional connecton involved.[/Zidarri]
Ok, put it like this. In japan you can have sex at the age of 13, are you married? They've gotten to be like that do to their society, and more often than not gotten multiple STDs (im sorry, but lol). The figment of regret is a basis with means to restrict said experience as you say. Though during marriage your not bound by said restriction as the comfort level is at it tops (in some cases).
Ok, put it like this. In japan you can have sex at the age of 13, are you married? They've gotten to be like that do to their society, and more often than not gotten multiple STDs (im sorry, but lol). The figment of regret is a basis with means to restrict said experience as you say. Though during marriage your not bound by said restriction as the comfort level is at it tops (in some cases).
KT, yet again i like the reality of it
terra, but thats the strict, religious bias i was talking about. in my eyes, the bible isnt anything but a bunch of words on paper.
religion has a role in your life, not mine. differences between views. thats all.
terra, but thats the strict, religious bias i was talking about. in my eyes, the bible isnt anything but a bunch of words on paper.
religion has a role in your life, not mine. differences between views. thats all.